The Perfect Lie

The Perfect Lie

Each Day I Live A Perfect Lie. I’m serious. If you looked at me you would notice I am the perfect woman. I am the complete package, with nothing missing. I proudly display my perfect marriage to a perfect husband and offer up for review my four perfect teenagers. If you followed me to work, you would see I am the President and CEO of a perfect company. I read my Bible and pray daily. I have the perfect ministry. but I live the perfect lie! – Read More

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Domestic Violence Patterns of Behavior

Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner.

Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound someone.

Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender. It can happen to couples who are married, living together or who are dating. Domestic violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels.

You may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if your partner:

  • Calls you names, insults you or continually criticizes you.
  • Does not trust you and acts jealous or possessive.
  • Tries to isolate you from family or friends.
  • Monitors where you go, who you call and who you spend time with.
  • Does not want you to work.
  • Controls finances or refuses to share money.
  • Punishes you by withholding affection.
  • Expects you to ask permission.
  • Threatens to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets.
  • Humiliates you in any way.

You may be in a physically abusive relationship if your partner has ever:

  • Damaged property when angry (thrown objects, punched walls, kicked doors, etc.).
  • Pushed, slapped, bitten, kicked or choked you.
  • Abandoned you in a dangerous or unfamiliar place.
  • Scared you by driving recklessly.
  • Used a weapon to threaten or hurt you.
  • Forced you to leave your home.
  • Trapped you in your home or kept you from leaving.
  • Prevented you from calling police or seeking medical attention.
  • Hurt your children.
  • Used physical force in sexual situations.

From the website of the National Domestic Violence Hotline
http://www.thehotline.org/get-educated/what-is-domestic-violence/

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Book Preview and Purchase Options

If you would like to read a bit of Lifted from Darkness please view Lifted from Darkness at Google Books

And if you’re ready to purchase Lifted from Darkness it is now available in both book and eBook format through a variety of different online retail options.  We’ve included some of the more common ones below!

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Author Book Signing

Author Book Signing October 2013, at Vine and Branches, CA.

Book Signing

I had a great time meeting everyone at the book signing.  Thank you to the many people who shared their own stories with me, and of course those of you who purchased my book!

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